What a guy must have in order to be even considered worth my time is love and respect for himself. A guy who cares, loves, and respects himself indicates that he will do the same for those around him, and more so for me. When I list these traits I don’t mean a self centered, arrogant man, but one who is considerate of himself and others. A guy who isn’t content with himself won’t be content with me.
I need a guy who can care for me. One with a sense of humor and strong family values. I like guys that enjoy teaching me new things. A guy that will surprise me with adventures.
I don’t need to spend every waking moment with him because he should be honest and trustworthy.
And of course, a guy who will be proud that I’m his.